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About Me

Melissa Marie Spencer Toronto is a 24 year old semi-newlywed with increasingly neurotic tendencies that include the need to bleach her bathroom floor and iron her sheets. She dreams of the day when she can stop (financially) supporting her darling husband on his quest to become a wildly successful IT entrepreneur, and instead can live in the manner in which she hopes to become accustomed with nothing to do but clean her house and sew. Sigh. A girl can dream. When she’s not using her neurotic powers for good, she devises elaborate plans to get her husband to stop working and pay attention to her. It’s a little like watching I Love Lucy reruns.

The Luckiest

My darling husband’s birthday is this weekend. I’m posting this a little early because I’m running off to Quilt Retreat and leaving him all alone. I feel awful about it, but what can I do? Maybe if his parents had planned a little better 26 years ago we wouldn’t have this problem.

A few months ago Dave and I took Grandma Toronto home after Sunday dinner. When we arrived at her tiny apartment she started to show me the pictures hanging on her wall; family photos, weddings, graduations. And then she pointed to the large picture in the middle. “That one there is my dear husband,” she said with tears in her eyes. “He was the kindest, sweetest, greatest man I’ve ever known.”

I think about that all the time, about how lucky she is. I suspect that not everyone is lucky enough to be married to the person they think is best in all the world.

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I guess I’m a lucky one.

Happy birthday, Burrito! You are the kindest, the sweetest, the best, and I can’t believe I’m lucky enough to be spending my life with you. I love you madly.

Always, M